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When Doing What’s Right Brings Pain

by Autumn Dickson

It is no question that Joseph went through some tough stuff despite trying to do what’s right. Being betrayed by your brothers and sold into slavery, thrown into prison, being forgotten after helping someone. None of these things should be skimmed over or treated lightly. Those are the kinds of things that can really take a toll on a person, especially when it all happened because they were trying to do what’s right. I think that’s key here as well. These things didn’t happen despite doing what’s right; some of these things happened because Joseph was doing what’s right.

I can imagine that would be frustrating. Let’s talk about a couple of these roadblocks.

The first roadblock was when his brothers betrayed him and sold him into slavery. His brothers didn’t just betray him; they betrayed Joseph because Joseph had received revelation from God that they would honor him. It was one of the reasons they chose to sell him (though their original plan was to kill him).

Genesis 37:19-20

19 And they said one to another, Behold, this dreamer cometh.

20 Come now therefore, and let us slay him, and cast him into some pit, and we will say, Some evil beast hath devoured him: and we shall see what will become of his dreams.

He did what was right and was punished for it.

Then there was Potiphar’s wife. Joseph found himself in an honorable position in Potiphar’s home when Potiphar’s wife came and tried to seduce him. He rejected her, she lied about him, and he was thrown into prison.

He did what was right and was punished for it.

There are a couple of tender mercies that happened along the way before Joseph is truly lifted out of this dark era. His brothers could have killed him but didn’t. Under normal circumstances, Potiphar would have killed Joseph for the accusation alone but didn’t. Joseph’s life was spared both times.

There were tender mercies, but I imagine that for most people, it would have been hard to see the tender mercies amidst everything else that was going on.

So it begs the question…why do you do what’s right?

When Joseph is tempted to sin by Potiphar’s wife, he responds in this epic way.

Genesis 39:9 There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou art his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?

How can I sin against God? Potiphar gave him so much, but Joseph rightly asks how he could possibly sin against God.

Choosing righteously is certainly an act of faith, but that act of faith is fragile without doing it for the right reasons. If Joseph had refused Potiphar’s wife for lesser reasons, how would his loyalty have measured up against prison? Probably not favorably.

Joseph’s concern was about being loyal to God, regardless of how things played out. This is so powerful. Choosing to do what’s right for the right reasons makes you powerful because it grants you access to God in a way that you can’t get by any other means. Let me elaborate by zooming out.

We came down here to be tested. We came down here to grow and that requires pain. Honest, eternal truth right there. True growth is impossible without difficulty. So what happens when difficulty gives us the opposite result? What happens when our mind assumes that blessings immediately come from loyalty?

First of all, it’s not true loyalty if you fold with difficulty.

Second of all, you are completely destroying the Plan of Salvation in your own life. You are making it impossible for God to bring about His purposes in your life. Let me describe it in this way with Joseph’s example.

Imagine if Joseph had said, “What the heck? You sent me a dream that my brothers would honor me and because of my dream, I find myself a slave. How does that work? I’m done. I’m not serving you anymore.” The irony here is that the slavery (the difficulty) is what enabled him to save his brothers and receive that honor. Would they have ever honored Joseph otherwise? Would he have always been the favorite child, and therefore, the most resented brother?

The difficulty made the blessing possible. If we fold after the difficulty, we miss the true blessing. Folding after difficulty is the epitome of irony.

God is trying to make us marvelous. He is trying to make us amazing. The only way He can do that is by sending difficulty. If we get annoyed and turn on Him the second we face difficulty, it makes it impossible for Him to bring about the Plan of Salvation in our lives.

He doesn’t give us difficulty=We don’t grow. We don’t become amazing.

He gives us difficulty=We turn on Him, and we still don’t become amazing.

Embrace the hard. You don’t have to love it, but lean into it. He is delivering on the promises He made to you before you came here. Let Him. Stand by Him through it, and He will stand by you.

I testify that the Lord loves you and is trying to bless you. I also testify that blessings often come in the form of tests and opposition. Those are some of the biggest blessings because they deliver the hoped-for purposes of the Plan of Salvation. I testify that loyalty to God through whatever He gives you is powerful. It’s life-changing. It helps you become all you were meant to be. Doing what’s right for the right purposes is the only way we become all we were meant to become.

 

Autumn Dickson was born and raised in a small town in Texas. She served a mission in the Indianapolis Indiana mission. She studied elementary education but has found a particular passion in teaching the gospel. Her desire for her content is to inspire people to feel confident, peaceful, and joyful about their relationship with Jesus Christ and to allow that relationship to touch every aspect of their lives. Autumn was the recipient of FAIR’s 2024 John Taylor Defender of the Faith Award.