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God Gives Us What We Ask For

by Autumn Dickson

In the last post, we talked a bit about how the people implored Samuel for a monarchy. They were insistent, and Samuel saw their folly. He tried warning them; he understood what they were really asking for even if they didn’t. Here is a modern rendition of that conversation.

Israelites-We want a king! Give us a king like other nations!

Samuel-Do you even understand what you’re asking? Kings take your sons for war and your daughters to be servants. They take the best of your property. They serve themselves. Why do you want a king?

Israelites-Give us a king!

Samuel knew Who they were rejecting, and he knew they were trying to replace the ultimate Defender with a mortal. The Israelites already had a King, but they wanted a different one. They insisted on it.

And interestingly enough, the Lord tells Samuel to go ahead.

Samuel 8:22 And the Lord said to Samuel, Hearken unto their voice, and make them a king. And Samuel said unto the men of Israel, Go ye every man unto his city.

The Lord tells Samuel to give them a king, and then He guides Samuel through the process of selecting and anointing kings. He gives the people what they want. The Lord literally just gives it to them. He didn’t directly condemn them. He literally just gave them the curse they asked for.

What I want to share today is my own interpretation of Judgment Day. I do not know exactly how Judgment Day or the eternities will look, but this is what I have come to believe thus far as I’ve studied the words of prophets and scripture. I’m sure it will evolve as I grow older, but this is my working theory.

Part (and I emphasize part because I’m sure there are exceptions to this) of Judgment Day is the Lord saying, “Give them what they want.” I think we often picture the Lord condemning and cursing and exiling people, but I think we’ve got it a bit wrong. I think people choose where they’re going more often than not. Let me give some examples of what I mean.

Woman-I refuse to be a baby factory. I won’t be oppressed like this.

Heavenly Father-Okay. I won’t force you. I’m not trying to make you a baby factory, I’m trying to make you a mother. I’m trying to save you from eternal emptiness, but I will give you what you want.

Woman-You can’t fool me! You’re just trying to control me!

The woman separates herself from what she perceives is a controlling, power-hungry god. She separates herself because she doesn’t know the true God, because she doesn’t understand what He’s trying to offer her.

It drives me nuts when people mischaracterize the Lord. Eternity is going to be painfully empty without posterity. PAINFUL. What do you even live for? Do you really think being single and childless is going to fulfill you for eternity? Sure, you’ll be fine for a while, but there will come a day when you realize that you have no purpose because there is no progression or struggle. Eternity will be hell, and you will have put yourself there. Someday you’re going to wake up and realize that God was trying to bless you, and you cursed yourself instead.

It often blows my mind how people get things so wrong, but this has been prophesied. In the latter-days, people will call good evil and evil good.

As a mother, I’ve been experimenting with how much agency to give my kids. And when I say “experiment,” I mean I get so tired of giving them instructions and being labelled a bad guy that I hide out in my room and let them go Lord of the Flies on each other. It usually gives me a small reprieve in exchange for hours of fixing the problems that cropped up while I was hiding.

If I were to let them choose exactly what they wanted, they would refuse any kind of schooling, sports, self-development, and anything else that is essential for healthy adjustment to adult life.

The irony is that for a long time, they would likely think they were happy, but I can see the misery that would come from never learning to read or work with a team. I can see the misery that would stem from watching their friends move on without them, watching the whole world move on without them. And if I allowed them to completely sink into TV and iPads, they would live there and be miserable and not even know it. If I let them take full control of their tiny-human-inclinations, they would scream at each other and kick each other, and they would turn into mean, miserable little gremlins who no one wants to be around.

I get it, Heavenly Father. It’s exhausting. It’s so frustrating to give your loved ones everything they need to be truly happy and live a worthwhile life only to be labelled bossy and mean.

Now that’s a pretty bleak assessment of my parenting right there, and it’s not always like that. Sometimes they appreciate me coaching them into better people. Sometimes I wake up and they’re making bagels for their baby sisters without me. Sometimes I watch them play games with each other for hours. I watch them control their anger or forgive each other or do any number of wonderful, mature, Christlike things. So we’re not complete failures over here, but I’ve definitely learned important lessons after becoming a mom.

I have learned that humans often love making themselves miserable. Heavenly Father doesn’t even have to curse us or send us to hell. We walk there willingly. We choose oppressive kings and empty saviors to fight our battles. We choose hell.

How much of Judgment Day will be arrogant people cursing His name because they supposedly know better? How much of Judgment Day will be people walking away from the Lord because they have Him all wrong? How long will it take for them to wake up and realize the path they took is a curse and He was trying to save them?
I testify of a Lord who is not a tyrant. He doesn’t force our hand. He is the one who gave us our agency and protects it. Despite all that it costs Him, He preserves our agency while Satan would try to destroy it and enslave us. Despite the fact that He had to pay for it with the blood of His Son, despite the fact that He is spit upon by His enemies because He allows them to, despite the fact that He gets labelled as an oppressive tyrant (ironic when you consider the fact that He is allowing them to call Him a tyrant), He protects our agency. He will let us walk away and choose those difficult lessons. Don’t choose the difficult lessons. I testify that He knows what He’s doing. Follow Him! Let Him be your King.

 

Autumn Dickson was born and raised in a small town in Texas. She served a mission in the Indianapolis Indiana mission. She studied elementary education but has found a particular passion in teaching the gospel. Her desire for her content is to inspire people to feel confident, peaceful, and joyful about their relationship with Jesus Christ and to allow that relationship to touch every aspect of their lives. Autumn was the recipient of FAIR’s 2024 John Taylor Defender of the Faith Award.