Introduction of Brian C. Hales
Some questions in church history require not only careful, full scholarship, but also compassion and honesty.
Our next presenter has spent decades studying one of the most challenging subjects in the Restoration. Doctor Brian Hales is a retired physician and one of the foremost researchers on Joseph Smith and plural marriage. His extensive work with primary historical resources has helped thousands better understand this difficult chapter of church history with greater clarity and perspective. Today, he’ll examine Joseph Smith’s practice of plural marriage through the historical record and help us better understand the Prophet’s experience during one of the most demanding periods of his life.
Please welcome Doctor Brian Hales.
Brian C. Hales — 2026 FAIR Conference
Joseph Smith: Sexual Opportunist or Reluctant Polygamist?

Good morning, brothers and sisters. It’s a pleasure to be with you and to talk about the topic of plural marriage and Joseph Smith. There’s a popular secular narrative out there that describes Joseph Smith—there we go—as a sexual opportunist. I think a better documented story is that he was, in fact, a reluctant polygamist.
We will first look at five primary assumptions upon which it is based.
- One is that he lied about polygamy.1 I believe that what he said were not lies.
- Number two, that he used coercion with women. But I believe he respected agency and exercised empathy.
- Three, he had conjugal relations with legally married women in polyandry, 2 where I believe that the sealings to legally married women were all eternity only and non-sexual. 3
- They say that he deceived Emma. I believe he exercised great patience and compassion with her.
- And then lastly, that he was a pedophile or a sexual predator. I believe that his sealings to the youngest wives were not consummated and were more like betrothal.
Did Joseph Smith Lie About Polygamy?
And so let’s talk about the first of these secular narratives, and that is that he lied about polygamy. However, I believe documented history shows that his statements were not lies and that he was, in fact, a truthful person. It has become very fashionable in some circles today to call Joseph Smith a liar. Yet I believe that such accusations themselves, these depictions, are themselves lies, as I see it.
The question, “Did Joseph Smith lie about polygamy?” has the same answer as “Did Abraham lie to Pharaoh or King Abimelech?” These incidents illustrate a principle that God does not require his followers to disclose their weaknesses to their enemies. Joseph and Abraham did not do that.
Now, with respect to polygamy, it is true that he denied and condemned:
- a community of wives,
- spiritual wifery4,
- free and unauthorized polygamy,
- and he publicly acknowledged that polygamy was never an official church practice.

Perhaps the most popular so-called denial occurred on May 26th, 1844, when Joseph Smith said, “What a thing it is for a man to be accused of committing adultery and having seven wives when I can only find one.” The statement may have been technically true, but not a full disclosure to the audience, which included some of his enemies.
What I see is Joseph using language of someone trying desperately not to lie, but also not disclosing the practice that the church was generally not yet positioned to accept. Joseph Smith had no reputation as a liar, according to multiple testimonies about his character, and I wrote an article about this in 2018, if anyone is interested. Please join with me in rejecting this notion that Joseph Smith was a liar.
Did Joseph Smith Use Coercion or Abuse His Authority?
Now, the second secular narrative is that he used coercion and abused authority. However, I believe documented history shows that he respected agency and exercised empathy.

And I did a study of Joseph Smith’s plural wives, and to see how they discuss their marriages to him in the years after his death, many of them remarried and had families, and I apologize. This is a very busy slide, but just notice that none of these women, including the half dozen or so who left the church, left a complaint against Joseph Smith or about the practice of polygamy.
Women Who Declined Joseph Smith’s Proposals
Sarah Granger Kimball. But we know that he was turned down by five women. Did he threaten them or publicly reprimand them? No. We know this only because the women or their families later related it.
Sarah Granger Kimball told Joseph to teach the plural marriage doctrine to other—to somebody else. He responded, “Will you tell me who to teach it to? I will not cease to pray for you.”

Emily Partridge mentioned another example of Joseph Smith’s character when asked if, during the period after he had proposed, but she had not yet accepted, did Joseph Smith ever lay his hand on your shoulder or put your arm around you, or offered to take your hand?
Then she testified, “He never did, for he was not that kind of man. He was a gentleman in every way and did not indulge in liberties like that.”
Elmira Knight told of the day that she defied Joseph’s wishes. “One day, mother and I were in the front room and Joseph Smith came walking down the street and turned into our gate. I had a hunch.”
See, plural marriage wasn’t that secret in Nauvoo.
“And as he entered the front door, I went out the back and remained until he left. When I returned, my mother told me that Joseph had come, at the request of his brother Hyrum, to ask me to be his wife, and also asked mother to ask me. Seen I wasn’t in. So when my mother said, ‘Elmira, what do you say about it?’ I said, ‘No.'”
There were no repercussions. Joseph and Hyrum respected their choices.
Phoebe Woodruff remembered in 1878 that “it had been upwards of 40 years since my first acquaintance with these doctrines, this people in the prophet Joseph. I knew him to be an honorable, virtuous, and pure man.”
Joseph has been accused of abusing authority. I believe he exercised empathy and respected agency.
Did Joseph Smith Practice Polyandry?
A third secular narrative is that Joseph Smith had conjugal 5 relations with legally married women in polyandry. Documented history shows these sealings were linked to legally married women, were eternity only 6 and non-sexual.

And here’s a slide of mine from a presentation in 2008. When I first started researching Joseph Smith’s plural marriages, I discovered that among the authors who had written on this topic, I seem to be the only voice saying that he did not practice polyandry or a plurality of husbands.
I realized that virtually all of the authors who had published on Joseph Smith in plural marriage portrayed him as a libido-driven fraud, even if they didn’t say it, who, after introducing a plurality of wives, simply added a plurality of husbands to expand his sexual opportunities. As I reviewed the evidence that they cited to support the theory, I was not impressed.
Evaluating the Historical Research
Can I suggest that their research was at best incomplete, if not deeply flawed? Let me explain.

Standard research methodology begins with a question like, “What about Joseph Smith and polygamy?” And then we learn that some of—then we gather sources and learn that some of the marriage ceremonies were to legally married women. We evaluate and analyze these sources, and if we do it through the lens that marriage ceremonies create families with sexuality, then we form a hypothesis that Joseph Smith practiced polyandry, and then we test the theory.
The problem is, none of the scholars tested it, or if they did, they did not mention their findings as they defended their theory without testing it. They did not completely follow standard research protocols.
And this is important because if they had tested their theory, they would have learned that polyandry is very controversial and difficult to implement in any society.
Historical Attitudes Toward Polyandry
Even in the 19th century, it was an explosive practice. In 1891, an article in Popular Science Monthly on polyandry declared, “It is inconceivable that men should have voluntarily initiated.” The Oxford English Dictionary notes in 1887 that polyandry was a euphemism for a prostitute.
If the scholars who describe Joseph Smith practicing polyandry had tested their theory, they would have asked, “Where are the reactions from the critics, the public outrage, the public published accusations, and the gossip?”

They would have noticed that John C. Bennett had a laundry list of complaints against the Saints, but he did not include polyandry. Neither did William Law in his Nauvoo Expositor articles.
Testing the theory would have brought these scholars face to face with the reality that Latter-day Saints in the 1840s believed polyandry was adultery due to Romans—due to Romans 7:2 and 3 and verses in section 132.

Joseph was also emphasizing the importance of the law of chastity in secret temple ceremonies at that time. Scholars would have sought reactions from Latter-day Saints like incredulity, apostasy, private references, and accounts of the participants who struggled. They would have looked for reports of Joseph Smith’s efforts to make polyandry acceptable.
None of these have been located. And brothers and sisters, it isn’t because these were so secret. There were dozens of men and women who were involved. There were family members who knew about these sealings to legally married women.
Likewise, in his 1842 book, John C. Bennett identified several of Joseph Smith’s spiritual wives as having legal husbands. Polyandry would have generated a fiery reaction that would probably still live in the collective memories of church members today had it occurred.
Joseph Smith’s Sealings to Married Women
But without exception, secular historians who report Joseph Smith engaged in polyandry have failed to explain the reactive silence that followed, and the complete lack of social reactions to what would have been considered an explosive practice for most who learned of it.
But as eternity only nonsexual sealings, these ceremonies generated little private or public concern, which is the expected reaction.
Now, before leaving this topic, I want to briefly address the case of Josephine Leon Fisher, which critics continue to misrepresent.
Josephine Lyon and the Question of Biological Paternity

Josephine Lyon was the daughter of Sylvia Sessions Lyon, who is legally married to Windsor Lyon, but eternally sealed to Joseph Smith. A question regarding her biological father existed until 2016, when Ugo Parego’s DNA research showed Windsor to be her biological father. And this isn’t what I expected, but it is what I had hoped.
In 1915, Josephine signed an affidavit stating that in 1882, her mother, Sylvia, told me that I was the daughter of the Prophet Joseph Smith.
Now, critics routinely stop quoting at this point, but in their presentism 7, they conclude that Josephine could only have been Joseph Smith’s daughter in one way: biologically.
Presentism, Contextualism, and Eternal Sealings
The opposite of presentism is contextualism8, which places events in context if it reveals it. Joseph Smith taught that father daughter relationships could also be formed through priesthood sealing ordinances between biologically unrelated individuals.

The rest of the sentence in Josephine’s 1915 affidavit seems to make this clear. At least it does to me. It reads, “she (Sylvia) having been sealed to the prophet at the time that her husband, Mr. Lyon, was out of fellowship with the church.”
Since Windsor had been excommunicated, Sylvia could not be sealed to him for eternity. So she was sealed to Joseph and all of her biological children were Joseph’s in eternity.
This seems straightforward to me. The secularist interpretation would be that when Windsor was disciplined by the church, Sylvia marched off to marry a second husband and start a second family while maintaining her previous family.
And that behavior would have been adultery. In 1843, in 1882 or in 1915. I have an article on this if you are interested in more details.
Joseph Smith, Emma Smith, and the Restoration of Plural Marriage
I believe Joseph Smith’s sealings to legally married women were all eternity only nonsexual unions. A forced secular narrative is that Joseph Smith deceived Emma. I think documented history shows that he exercised compassion and patience with her.
To understand interactions with Emma, we must start with Fanny Alger. She arrived in Kirtland in 1832 or 33, and soon served as a domestic in the Smith’s small home.
Joseph related an angel appeared to him in July of 1834, commanding the restoration of the practice of polygamy. He later told Julia Hills Johnson, who had three unmarried daughters in their 20s at the time, that his first thought was to come to her and ask to marry one of them.
Fanny Alger and the Kirtland Years

Joseph was most likely sealed to Fanny in early 1836. If the ceremony was after April 3rd, it would have been this dispensation’s first eternal marriage.
Emma discovered the union in June and sent Fanny to live with the Webb family. She later left the area with her family on their trek to Missouri.

The interesting thing is that those who learned about the relationship from family, from Fanny, considered it a plural marriage, including her own family, her relatives, the Hancock’s, the Webb family with whom she stayed, and Eliza R. Snow, who was there and was well acquainted with Fanny.
Fanny, in contrast, Emma and Oliver and others declared that it was adultery. At that time, Emma rejected polygamy, and Joseph’s reports that God wanted the practice restored.
Plural Marriage in Nauvoo

Moving now five years ahead to Nauvoo, where Joseph Smith started to be sealed to additional women, almost all of his initial sealings were eternity only and nonsexual.
The dating of the Louisa Beaman sealing is controversial, but it fits better in 1842. Regardless, there is a strange pattern that changes in early 1842, when Joseph pivoted to proposals and sealings with unmarried women.
Joseph reported, and the angel came a third time in February, commanding him to engage in full plural marriages like those of Old Testament patriarchs Abraham and Jacob. This time the angel apparently brandished a sword for emphasis.
Yet Joseph’s previous pattern is unmistakable, and I believe it was designed unsuccessfully to appease the angel on one hand and not hurt Emma’s feelings on the other.
Emma Smith and the Temple Endowment

Joseph was patient with Emma as he introduced the temple endowment ceremony to men in April of 1842, but waited over a year for Emma to accept eternal and plural marriage, and thus became the first woman to perform temple matron duties.
We also notice God encouraged Emma to forgive Joseph his trespasses as we review their relationship. Apparently, he could have done some things better.

Shortly before the martyrdom, Emma wrote a blessing, declaring, I desire with all my heart to honor and respect my husband as my head ever to live in his confidence, and by acting in unison with him, retain the place which God has given me by his side.
If Emma, who knew firsthand the details of restored plural marriage, could forgive Joseph and still revere him a prophet, then perhaps we too can be less willing to judge him or her.
Joseph Smith’s Youngest Plural Wives
A fifth secular narrative is that Joseph Smith was a pedophile or sexual predator, but the record shows his sealings to his youngest wives were not consummated and more like betrothal.9

Ten of his plural wives were teenagers. We will focus on the youngest three. What we can discern is that Joseph Smith did not specifically seek any of these sealings. Evidence supports that the sealings were not consummated. Months after their plural sealing, Joseph and the 16-year-old Flora Woodworth divorced. They had a sealing cancellation, first of this dispensation, no doubt, as she legally married a nonmember, Carlos Gove.
Brides of this age were eyebrow-raising, but not scandalous. In Utah, the policy was to wait until the women were 17 or 18, a policy I think Joseph Smith started, though I can’t prove it.
Helen Mar Kimball and the Question of Betrothal

Regarding Helen Mar Kimball, the 14-year-old that is most often talked about, Joseph did not seek that sealing. According to her account, there’s no evidence that Joseph and Helen were ever alone together.
After the ceremony, the sealing appears to have been more of a betrothal. As an adult, Helen defended Joseph and plural marriage in Utah in several publications.
Was Joseph Smith a Reluctant Polygamist?
Now there is a sixth narrative that Joseph Smith was a sexual opportunist, but the historical record shows that he was, I believe, a reluctant polygamist.

- First, Joseph Smith was a doer and not want to delay, so to require three angel visits, the last one with a sword to convince him to fulfill the command is very uncharacteristic.
- Second, Joseph’s sealings show a definite pattern that begins with a series of non-sexual, eternity only sealings. Then the angel visit causes him to shift the practice.
The Timing of Doctrine and Covenants 132
- Third, the timing of the revelation on polygamy, now section 132, is puzzling. If Joseph was a sexual opportunist, why would he not have given that revelation early to convince potential wives and others that the practice was from God?
Instead, he waited until Hyrum convinced him to dictate it in 1843.
- And fourth, Joseph also convinced several Latter-day Saints that he didn’t want to do it.
Elijah Arsenault described Joseph as afraid to promulgate it. Helen Mark Kimball remembered, Joseph put off the dreaded day as long as he dared.
Lorenzo Snow remembered, Joseph hesitated and deferred from time to time, and Lucy Walker reported that Joseph had his doubts about it, for he debated it in his own mind.
Historical Observations About Joseph Smith’s Motivations
And there are others I could, I could quote multiple observations, support that Joseph was not a sexual opportunist.

Choosing marriages over flings or liaisons created much more, much greater personal responsibility.
Scholar Kathleen Flake, when asked, “do I think Joseph Smith’s revelation on polygamy can be reduced to his sex drive?” She responded, no, I don’t. It’s too simplistic.
There are so many easier ways to satisfy our sex drive than to have many marriages.
Introducing the secret temple endowment10 with covenants to obey the law of chastity, at the same time that he secretly introduced plural marriage, could have generated cries of hypocrisy, should any impropriety have been detected by the participants, and there is huge overlap between those groups.
Performing eternity only sealings to legally married women serve little purpose if sexuality were the expectation.
And as a sexual opportunist, many of his decisions are simply unexpected and unfocused, ineffective and unorthodox. But they do support that Joseph Smith was in fact a reluctant polygamist.
The Challenge of Restored Plural Marriage
From my perspective, brothers and sisters, the problem with Joseph Smith’s polygamy is not Joseph Smith. It is not his decisions, actions, or motivations.
He was called in 1820 as God’s prophet, and nine years later dictated the 269,000-word Book of Mormon. That book is proof of his prophetic calling.

Secularists and atheists have no rational explanation for the literary expertise Joseph Smith exhibited while dictating the Book of Mormon. I believe that the conversation about the miracle of the Book of Mormon will soon be expanding.
Prophets and Difficult Commandments
The problem is not Joseph Smith because he did what prophets do: they reveal challenging and difficult commandments.
Can you imagine Adam teaching Abel that God wanted them to kill small lambs, or Noah teaching his family? They needed to build an ark when it wasn’t raining?
How about Abraham teaching his followers of the covenant, requiring circumcision, or Moses instructing the children of Israel to not eat pork and everything else in the law of Moses and Lehi convinced his family then others to leave Jerusalem.
Then Joseph Smith restores the Old Testament practice of polygamy. Issuing tough commandments is what prophets do in their day.
What If Plural Marriage Had Never Been Restored?
Have you ever wondered how the church might have progressed over the past two centuries if the Latter-day Saints had not practiced polygamy between 1840 and 1904?
There is no authorized polygamy in the Book of Mormon. Theologically, there’s no obvious reason to restore it. Just as animal sacrifice and circumcision have not been restored.
What if monogamy had been the only accepted marital practice since 1830?
In late 1843, William Law learned of the restoration of plural marriage. He resisted and personally orchestrated the events that led to the martyrdom. But William Law apostatized.
William Law’s Appeal to Joseph Smith
Before he did, he spoke emotionally with Joseph Smith. He placed his arms around Joseph’s neck and pleaded with him to withdraw the teachings of polygamy.
William predicted that if Joseph abandoned the practice, and in 50 or 100 years, Mormonism would dominate the Christian world.
Both William and Joseph had tears running down their faces, according to William’s son, who later recalled the event.
But Joseph informed William that God had commanded him.
Why Was Plural Marriage Commanded?
So why did God command Joseph? We don’t know.

Section 132 gives several reasons. Plural marriage might be allowed, but none explain why an angel with a sword demanded it.
What we can say is that the legacy of polygamy impacts the church today in two significant ways.
The Legacy of Polygamy and Latter-day Saint Faith

First, the church’s polygamy legacy is shifting the current generation of Latter-day Saints.
In his book Torn, Jeff Strong lists polygamy as an important factor for many members who leave the church, and today, there are other voices who teach that Joseph Smith never practiced polygamy.
It is a false narrative that ultimately destroys faith in the restoration. Please do not follow it.

My late wife, Laura Harris Hales, observed, 19th century saints struggle to live the commandment of polygamy. 21st century saints struggle to believe polygamy was a commandment.
If polygamy feels like an obstacle to belief, well, it may have been designed that way.
The Impact of Polygamy on Missionary Work
The church is adversely affected in a second way in missionary work, often upon learning that Joseph Smith was a polygamist, people today immediately associate him with other charismatic males who sexually abuse their followers, and they dismiss the possibility that he was a true prophet.
Did God know that this would happen? Well, of course he did. His ways are higher than ours.

Mortality is a time to be tried and proven.
A Testimony of Joseph Smith’s Prophetic Calling
Brothers and sisters, we do not need a testimony of polygamy to have a strong testimony that Joseph Smith was a prophet of God.
We can still believe that he saw the father and the son, that he was visited by angels, that he restored ordinances, that he translated the Book of Mormon, that he restored the sealing authority.
He gave revelation and taught inspired doctrines.

And did I mention he was a reluctant polygamist?
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